Lately I have been amazed at the amount of service we have received from our loved ones. We moved to a third-story apartment two months after getting married, and then I threw my back out and have been bedridden. All of those things demanded a lot of help from others. I'm the kind of person who feels the need to reciprocate when someone does something nice for me, but we've been getting so much help that it's not even immediately possible. I can only pray that one day we will be able to pay it all back (or forward) somehow.